Build Your Child's Social Courage With Small Daily Wins Emotions

I remember a parent telling me once: “You’ve got to treat the little stuff like it’s a big deal.” She meant things like asking the waitress for a napkin or ordering a baozi at the ...
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Be a Supportive Parent Not a Controlling One Emotions

Why I Don't Want Kids to Just Listen I've been a kindergarten principal for thirty years. And if there's one thing I've learned, it's that the phrase "Listen to me" is one of the m...
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Stop Giving Kids Labels That Mess Up Their Identity Emotions

"Today you're the big boss of our house!" I still remember the father who told me this with such confidence. His daughter was supposed to clean up her toys and do a few small chore...
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Finding Role Models That Quietly Shape Your Child Behavior

“He won’t do it unless I push him,” a mom told me last week, frustration tightening her voice. “If I don’t light a fire under him, he just sits there.”I’ve heard some version of th...
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Why Do Kids End Up Copying Their Parents' Careers Emotions

One of the best parts of my job is that parents tell me things. Not just the big stuff — the small, honest things. A few weeks ago, a mom stayed behind after our morning drop-off. ...
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Why Critical Thinking Matters More Than Grades Early Learning

I remember a mom once told me, quite honestly, that whether a child can handle things well, think through problems, or step up when given a chance — all of that is a gift. But here...
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Follow Your Kid's Interests to Build Self-Discipline Behavior

Follow Your Kid's Interests to Build Self-Discipline As parents, we’ve all been there. You’ve laid out a perfect morning routine, planned a nutritious dinne
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How to Raise Kids Who Love Reading and Sports: A Principal’s Simple Two-Habit Plan Habits

Learn how to raise kids who love reading and sports with a simple two-habit plan from a kindergarten principal. Start small, build routines, and watch them thrive.
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Why Your Preschooler's Balance Matters More Than You Think: 5 Sensory Integration Tips Every Parent Needs Habits

Sensory integration is the hidden key to your preschooler's balance and confidence. Learn 5 simple tips to boost it at home, straight from a kindergarten principal's advice.
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The Science of Early Learning: A Principal’s Guide to Pre-K Academics Early Learning

Discover the science-backed approach to pre-K academics from a kindergarten principal. Learn how to build study habits, boost literacy, and make math fun.
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